Contents of this article
- 1. The female star of "Lang Jie 3" broke down and cried: She wanted to give birth to a smart son smoothly.
- 2. Natural childbirth is like a journey through hell
- 3. Will amniotic fluid embolism occur during normal delivery?
- 4.Which celebrity died of amniotic fluid embolism?
The female star of "Lang Jie 3" broke down and cried: In order to give birth to a smart son smoothly
In "Sister Lang 3", Amber Kuo was asked: If you could make a phone call through time and space, who would you call and what would you say?
She said without hesitation: I called my father in 1998 and told him to "definitely choose a caesarean section."
In this way, Guo Caijie tearfully revealed a sealed memory.
"When she was 12 years old and she was promoted to the first grade of the National High School, her mother fought hard to have a younger brother in order to have a natural birth. She died on the operating table just because her father thought that children born naturally were smarter."
On February 19, 1986, a cute little girl with pink makeup and jade was born. While her arrival made her mother feel happy, it was also accompanied by sorrow, because she knew that many families in that era favored sons. It is serious for a girl, especially her husband and her family, who prefer sons. If she cannot give birth to a son, she will have to bear the pressure from the family and the outside world. And this daughter is already the second girl she has given birth to. As a husband, The eldest son of the family has always been given the "mission" by the family to have a son, so she desperately wanted to have a third child regardless of her advanced age.
Guo Caijie is the second eldest child in her family. Her mother runs a stationery store and her father is an ordinary office worker.
According to Guo Caijie's recollection, the day her mother gave birth to her younger brother was also the day she was preparing to participate in a speech contest. Faced with the speech, both mother and daughter were very nervous. Before the speech contest, her mother also suggested that she Going to the top floor to worship, Guo Caijie nodded in agreement. After the speech, she quickly returned home to wait for news about her mother with her sister.
What was waiting for her was that her father rushed back in a hurry and told her and her sister to get dressed and go to the hospital. When she and her sister went to the hospital and saw their family members crying, she immediately understood that she had lost her love for her forever. Mother.
"I lost my mother", such a helpless and powerless sentence.
"After my mother left, the house became eerily quiet. Whoever was hungry ate, and there was no longer the excitement of a family sitting around."
After her mother left, Guo Caijie's family became at a loss, like a person who couldn't swim and fell into the water, forced to flop around and try to stay alive.
After that,
Guo Caijie complained about her grandparents for many years. She argued at home every day and vented her inner anger like crazy.
In fact, she knew that her grandparents were not evil people, because according to local tradition, if the elders are still alive, young people who die in the hospital cannot be taken home. However, the grandparents ignored the taboo and insisted on taking their daughter-in-law home. Go home.
Of course,
The pain of losing her mother at the age of 12 did not defeat Guo Caijie, a skinny little girl. The death of her mother made her full of explosive power.
One night When Guo Caijie grew up, she said that after her mother passed away, she decided to become the golden bell of the family to protect the whole family, "because that change put our whole family into a dark moment, but it will eventually shine out, This power can penetrate darkness. "
Do you still remember the queen-like Gu Li in "Tiny Times"?
I think this is inseparable from Guo Caijie's growth experience, because a strong aura cannot be presented just by acting, it requires life experience and growth.
Guo Caijie later had a very good relationship with her family, and she loved her grandparents and father very much. Now she occasionally blames herself for her previous attitude, because she knows that no one wants that to happen. .
In the past, when medical and health services were underdeveloped, many women sacrificed their lives for childbirth. We naturally thought that this was something that happened in the distant future with a very small probability, but it was not true.
No, in 2018, Choo Ja Hyun, already 39 years old, still risked her life to give birth to her son "Dahai". The couple had just posted a photo of their baby's soles, and their agency posted a post claiming that she had postpartum cramps. After entering the intensive care unit, Yu Xiaoguang said: He is currently undergoing examination and recovering."
It was precisely because of this experience of going through hell that when the media broke the news that Yu Xiaoguang went to a bar with his friends and asked him to sit on his lap and play with his mobile phone, which was suspected of cheating, netizens started to criticize him.
At that time, Da Mi Mi made a quick comeback after giving birth, her figure recovered extremely well, and she was surrounded by glamorous words such as being a hot girl and a hot mother. Little did she know that when she was giving birth to little Nuomi, Da Mi Mi also performed a necropsy at a critical moment. Originally, Mi Mi decided to give birth naturally, but during the delivery process, Xiao Nuomi's head was too big. Mi Mi tried her best and couldn't do it, so she immediately decided to follow the doctor's advice and have a caesarean section. Therefore, Mi Mi went through two kinds of labor in order to give birth to Xiao Nuomi. The pain caused by the method, just imagine if at that time, the choice of Da Mi Mi's family was the same as that of Guo's father. Now it is another story.
Only by chance, Vivian Hsu gave birth to her son Li V Bao when she was 40 years old. Her hardships cannot be understood by others. In order to preserve the fetus, Vivian Hsu lay in bed for 142 days. I had 300 injections of tocolytic injections in my belly, and my belly was full of pinholes. Later, my legs became weak. After giving birth to my son, I worked hard to rehabilitate and was able to walk again.
Liu Qiangdong’s biological sister, 43-year-old Liu Qiangru, was not so lucky. She died of amniotic fluid embolism when giving birth to her third child in 2018.
As a woman, giving birth to a child is a hurdle in life. The dangers in the childbirth bed never distinguish between you and me.
Many scenes of women giving birth in movies and TV dramas restore the plot of giving birth to a 1:1 ratio in real life. At the same time, it also scares away girls who are not yet married and have children.
In "The Legend of Mi Yue", Mi Yue was plotted against by Tortoiseshell, and her premature birth was hanging by a thread. She tried her best to give birth, until her veins burst, her face was ferocious, and she screamed heartbreakingly. Netizens were furious Posted a comment on Weibo: “Difficult childbirth is so scary! ”, “Having a baby is so scary”.
In "The Legend of Zhen Huan", Shen Meizhuang suffered from dystocia and hemorrhage in order to give birth to Imperial Physician Wen's child. Even though she was the emperor's concubine and had the best imperial doctors in the country to check her, she still gave up her life in the end.
Zhou Xun also challenged the camera of giving birth. His face turned pale and he shouted: "No, we don't want children."
An Yixuan in "Yun Niang" was in so much pain that he clung to the quilt and his face was directly deformed.
In reality, most people still think that women have to go through the process of giving birth, and complaining about pain and fear is hypocritical and "pretending".
3 years ago, when Xiao Ai was in confinement, she accidentally came across the footage of "Shengmen", and went after it with a score of 9.4 on Douban. After watching it, she couldn't calm down for a long time, and was caught by the camera. The danger in the delivery room was so scary that I could even dream about it when I went to sleep. At that time, I was glad that I only watched it after giving birth.
Xia Jinju, a woman who already has a daughter, has suffered several miscarriages, but the whole family still has the desire to pursue a child. This pregnancy has dangerous placenta previa, and the uterus may rupture at any time. Due to the risk, I stayed in bed in Zhongnan Hospital for four months.
Xia Jinju suffered severe bleeding during childbirth, her heart stopped twice, and she needed 13,000 ml of blood transfusion, which is equivalent to four blood transfusions for the whole body. Despite this, between preserving the uterus and saving her life, this silly woman made a decisive decision. Choose the former.
Seeing this, I felt more distressed. After all, it was the woman who shouldered everything. Xia Jinju’s husband was not present during the entire birth process. Xia’s father’s face was full of sadness and worry. From beginning to end, there was only He always had a daughter in his eyes and heart. When the nurse brought the baby out, the first thing his parents-in-law did was to care about the baby and call him a son.
Li Shuangshuang was more than 28 weeks pregnant. Because the baby was judged to be underdeveloped by the eugenics department, the child's father and grandparents insisted on inducing abortion. The grandmother even said to the doctor, "The child is like choosing a seed. Choose the best seeds. "But according to national laws, babies who are more than 28 weeks pregnant are considered viable individuals. If there are no serious fatal deformities or other conditions, induction of labor is not allowed.
Despite the doctor's earnest persuasion, Li Shuangshuang's family still insisted on not wanting the child. In the end, the child was born prematurely. The doctor said that the child would have to pay 10,000 yuan before entering the neonatal department. The child's father and grandfather remained silent. The father was afraid that he would lose his life and money and did not want treatment, while the child's grandfather had been asking for a commitment from the doctor.
"If this child is saved now, will there be any problems in the future? Is it meaningful?" You must know that newborns are inherently fragile, and every second must be fought for, but the father and son are so entangled in this struggle. The money issue took so long. The camera swept over and saw that Li Shuangshuang's father-in-law was wearing two large gold rings on his hands, which were bright and dazzling. The female doctor was anxious at that time. She almost said in a pleading tone: "I am not a god. I am a human being, how can I guarantee that this child is healthy, but at least you should give this child a chance to survive. Perhaps due to the pressure of the camera, they finally paid 10,000 yuan because it was premature and the baby had problems. It was a lot, and a medicine called Gursu was needed in the process. One dose of Gursu cost 7,000 yuan. The family hesitated again. In the end, they chose conservative treatment, and the baby finally left.
Many girls feel uncomfortable seeing this. It is obvious that they are pregnant. Shouldn't it be up to women to choose whether to keep the child and whether to treat the child? Facing such a powerful in-laws and a cowardly and incompetent husband, what kind of courage should both of them have to conceive a second child?
Nan Xiang in "Little Times" went through two pregnancies after marrying Xiang Zuo. The couple's progress in creating a baby has always been on the hot search entertainment page. Recalling a show that the two participated in 3 years ago. During the reality show, there was a scene where when faced with the question of whether to have a natural birth or a caesarean section, Nan Xiang said that natural birth was better, but he had no control over the abnormal fetal position. Xiang Tai said lightly: Natural birth is the best! Xiang Zuo said: My mother gave birth to me in pain for 16 hours... The implication was that she followed her mother's choice to give birth naturally, which frightened Nan Xiang to the point of confusion.
It is now revealed that Xiang Zuo cheated on Nan Xiang during her pregnancy. Only Nan Xiang knows the feeling of happiness or sadness. After all, she is the one who bears everything alone. After all, she is the daughter-in-law chosen by her mother-in-law, and not necessarily her husband. In the photo, what is chilling is how you can raise children for a man, go through life and death, and still not be able to stop him from cheating on you.
In addition to the pain and dangers experienced during childbirth, women also suffer from pre- and postpartum conditions that make us exhausted and miserable. Liangliang has also experienced the torture of postpartum depression. Even though her living conditions are better than ordinary people, she is still a new mother at a loss when faced with postpartum depression. Without personal experience, outsiders may not be able to understand the horror of postpartum depression.
This is Huo Siyan's state when she was pregnant. Her body was bloated and obese, and her weight soared to 160 pounds. Celebrities pay more attention to appearance than ordinary people. Look, this is her original figure.
Even though the baby has landed, his body still feels heavy and there is still a bulge in his belly.
Various examinations before delivery, especially the "internal examination", are extremely humiliating. If something goes wrong, a large group of doctors and nurses will surround you to "observe" you.
As outsiders, especially the children’s “grandmothers” and aunts, they will happily say: Ouch! They are all people who have been here before, so there is nothing hard to do.
In this regard, only mothers who have personally experienced childbirth can truly understand that "it is not easy", because the so-called beautiful and happy process is how difficult and painful it is.
Let’s take a look at the unbearable experience of giving birth to a baby as told by the mother.
Little S: "After the anesthesia for caesarean section, the severe pain spread throughout the whole body, as if every hair was screaming. It was really unforgettable pain." <ph100> The placenta required more than 20 stitches, urinary incontinence required catheterization, and the hemorrhoids fell off and did not return to their places for a month. However, my husband and a young girl were getting along. On the fourth day of confinement, it was approaching 12 o'clock at night. The girl sent a text message and I found out that she wanted a divorce. She turned around to look at her lovely child and cried silently alone. "
"I remember a month ago, I had redness 10 days before the due date. I was waiting for a caesarean section. At that time, my mother-in-law told me not to record the time and asked me to endure it for three days. That night I I took a taxi directly to the hospital. The doctor said it was a blessing that I arrived in time, otherwise the baby's hypoxia would not be a joke. This made me suspect that this is how Pojiao's niece came about. Women still have to be strong and control their own destiny. ”
“I had a normal delivery. It took 3 hours from the time the baby was removed without pain to the time the baby landed. Thinking back on it, I shuddered all over, and the pain was so painful that I was about to die. I couldn’t use force and yelled. As a result, the lower body was congested, the hemorrhoids fell off severely, and the tear was even more serious. The baby's head was pinched. During the period, the doctor ordered him to stand up or straddle during the birth, and he couldn't do it. After the doctor issued the notice of orthopedic surgery, my husband and mother-in-law were not willing to sign, and they were heartbroken. After taking off the money for half an hour, I finally forced myself to sign and agree to a caesarean section. A large group of doctors and nurses surrounded me and did all kinds of things. I went through two methods of delivery. Afterwards, the baby was admitted to the neonatal department, and my husband’s family also gave me the baby during the confinement period. Giving birth to my second child"
"On the day of delivery, I walked into the delivery room and was the last one. It was so embarrassing as soon as I entered. There were 7 pregnant women lying there in a row, with their legs spread like this, and their private parts were completely exposed to me. In front of me, I was so frightened that I was stunned. While I was waiting for my fingers to be opened, I was frightened by the shouting of the mother next to me and became incontinent. Later, I heard the nurse say that the first mother was the fifth child, a daughter. She had to give birth to a son. She couldn't believe it, but she still silently wished her that she could get her wish and end this "machine" career as soon as possible. ”
Of course, as the mother’s family members, understanding and support can really ease the pain.
"I had a caesarean section. My husband is very supportive. My parents-in-law take good care of me and I have recovered well. My friends say my mother-in-law doesn't bathe or wash my hair. On the contrary, my mother-in-law makes herbal medicines for bathing every day. The air conditioner is turned on, and I don’t eat vegetables and fruits like my aunt said. My husband arranges food at any time and eats a balanced diet. I am both happy and in pain, and I am always in a good mood.”
We girls have never hated having children. What we hate is that our reproductive rights are "controlled". It is originally a physically harmful and painful thing, but others think you are "spoiled" and "squeamish". In life, There are still too few expectant mothers who can be understood, supported and loved. Most mothers are unhappy and shed tears during confinement.
Men, if a woman chooses you and gives you children, then please feel more sorry for her and love her more for the rest of your life, because the door of life is the door of death, and you can walk away Why not cherish a woman who has passed through hell?
Natural childbirth is like a journey through hell
My high school classmate was pregnant and had a baby in 2009, and she almost died. She suddenly suffered from pregnancy-induced hypertension in the second trimester of her pregnancy. She went to the hospital for emergency treatment and tried her best to protect her. However, the baby was gone and she remained in a coma for more than 50 days. The doctor told her family that they were not sure whether she would wake up and whether she would be normal after waking up, but her husband firmly believed that she would wake up, so he wrote a letter to her every day, and then read it to her in front of the hospital bed, and visited her classmates. They all felt very touched, and then they helped her raise money. In the end, a miracle really happened. She woke up and was discharged from the hospital healthy. Later, she told us that her husband called her and talked to her every day, and she could hear the efforts. to wake up.
After experiencing such a terrible thing, we all thought she would never have another child, but in 2014 she successfully gave birth to a girl. She said she was willing to take risks for the man who loved her so much.
In fact, women are really courageous. Even if they are on the verge of death, they can still take that step bravely, just because they have love in their hearts. Really, for love we can endure pain and endure many limits that ordinary people cannot imagine.
Just like mothers who give birth to their second or third child, they know that giving birth is extremely painful, equivalent to breaking 10 ribs, but why do they still give birth again and again? Many people say that the scars are healed and they forget about the pain. In fact, how could we forget? On the road of raising children, we just see them growing up healthy and happy day by day. This kind of joy and happiness is far more real than the pain. , more lethal. So, we're willing to risk it.
Mothers who have experienced it must understand why it hurts so much?
You just think that your pelvis is originally together. When you give birth to a baby, it will split, and there will be an opening of about 10cm, so that the fetus can come out. This is so painful. And it didn't open all at once, the contractions came one after another. How many times in life have you shouted that you are not going to have a baby and you need to have an autopsy, and you need to get the baby out as soon as possible.
At that time, I really didn’t care about anything else. I just wanted the children to come out as soon as possible. I didn’t care about my image or anything like that.
Normal delivery usually involves side incision
If it doesn't hurt, you may not feel anything. People who do feel pain have described it as a raw seam. Without anesthetic, the feeling will be unforgettable for the rest of your life. Everyone's experience is different. It is better to control the fetal weight during pregnancy. Although side surgery cannot be completely avoided when the child is small, it is relatively easier to give birth.
However, as medicine is so advanced now, there are fewer and fewer cases of dystocia, and there are basically countermeasures. It is much safer than before. Don't be too nervous. Usually, the baby will be born smoothly.
Pay more attention during pregnancy, have regular prenatal check-ups, eat properly, exercise moderately, and relax. These may all help you give birth smoothly.
Come on, great mothers!
It is true that when a woman gives birth to a baby, whether it is a natural birth or a caesarean section, she is really going through a cycle of death. This is because giving birth is not only painful, but also risky.
For example, the number one killer of women in childbirth is amniotic fluid embolism. Last year, Liu Qiangdong’s sister Liu Qiangru died of amniotic fluid embolism after giving birth to her third child. People can't help but lament that in the face of death, no matter how much money there is, it is useless, because medically there is no way to treat postpartum amniotic fluid embolism.
Some people will lose their lives because of giving birth to children. The daughter-in-law of one of my husband's friends had been in a coma after giving birth by caesarean section in 2014. She lay in bed for more than a month and finally passed away. After giving birth to a child, I didn’t even see my own child. When I heard about this incident, I was really shocked, because it was the first time I heard that someone close to me had lost their life because of giving birth to a child.
Therefore, the risk for women to have children is really high. Although some people may say that the probability of an accident is very low and most people can give birth safely. The person who said these words really stood up and spoke without pain in his back. No matter how low the probability is, the probability is the same for everyone, especially for sudden diseases like amniotic fluid embolism, which have no symptoms.
If the pain level is divided into 10 levels, then the pain of childbirth is the highest level, because everyone has different sensitivity to pain, and some people may feel special pain.
While waiting for the cervix to open, with each uterine contraction, the fetus in the abdomen will be pushed to the cervix due to the force of the contractions, and the fetus' head will hit the cervix to test the size of the cervix. When giving birth, the vagina needs to be opened from the usual size of 3 fingers to 10 fingers. Imagine that the baby's head will eventually come out of the vagina. Is this normal pain? People who haven't experienced it really can't understand it.
Do you still remember the news about the pregnant woman jumping off a building in Yulin? Unable to bear the pain of opening her cervix, the woman finally chose to jump out of the hospital window.
Some people accuse this mother of being too irresponsible and not considering the child in her belly. As bystanders, we are not mothers, and we cannot understand how painful she is, because everyone has different pain sensitivity, with 5% People are particularly sensitive to pain, so if you are not the person involved, please do not make unreasonable accusations.
I still remember reading a story once, where a group of medical interns went to observe delivery. After reading it, a boy said with emotion that as long as his future wife is willing to have children, he will support her. It can be seen that giving birth to a child is such a terrible thing. As a man, please feel sorry for your wife!
Reproduction is our instinct, and the cost of reproduction is risking our lives. Natural childbirth is like a woman going to hell. This saying is absolutely true. When a pregnant woman gives birth to a child, she has one foot in the gate of hell. Once she has stepped through, the mother and child will be safe.
The pain level of pregnant women during childbirth is judged as: level 10 pain. The risks and pain of a woman's natural birth cannot be expressed in such superficial words. But when a pregnant woman gives birth to a baby, it can indeed be described as a narrow escape from death.
In ancient times, unlike modern times, if vaginal delivery is not possible, a caesarean section will be performed in time. A caesarean section can be used to ensure the safety of mother and child. However, before caesarean section, if the fetus was in an abnormal position, it would be difficult to ensure the safety of mother and child. Many women lost their lives because they did not go through the process of giving birth. Therefore, in an era when medicine was underdeveloped, the risk of giving birth to a child was very high, and it was considered to be like a woman going to hell.
Women's bodies are different, and their experience of pain is also different, and it varies from person to person. Women are really tortured when they give birth. Even if it is not painful, it will consume all their energy. From uterine contractions to labor pains, then to the delivery of the fetus with the fingers opened, until the final side incision or tear suture, the mother has to experience unbearable severe pain. As the labor progresses, the pain will become more and more painful. The fingers opened to give birth to the baby smoothly. The most painful point of the disease, how can the word "pain" be so big! However, even if they grit their teeth and grin in pain, mothers will endure it. When they think about seeing their babies, they have to endure the pain no matter how painful it is. This is how mothers have come through. Once the baby is delivered, mothers will also feel relaxed.
If you interview ten people about how painful it is for a woman to give birth, they will describe it in different languages, but they all express the same meaning: life is worse than death!
In fact, if we analyze this issue from a rational perspective, the pain of childbirth is a physiological phenomenon, not a disease. The function of uterine contraction pain is to promote the dilation of the cervix and the descent of the fetus, thereby allowing smooth delivery. Labor pain is beneficial to both mother and baby. It stimulates the skin of the fetus, helps it complete the final nervous system development, and squeezes the water in the fetus's lungs to prepare for the newborn's breathing.
In addition, postpartum uterine contractions can help mothers reduce postpartum bleeding and remove residual blood clots, fetal membranes and other debris from the uterus. Therefore, labor pain is beneficial to both the mother and the baby.
Having said that, it cannot relieve any pain of childbirth. Women will do a lot of crazy things when they are in pain during childbirth. For example, hitting your husband, losing your temper, swearing, or even jumping off a building! It is enough to show that giving birth to a child requires a lot of courage and physical strength to bear it!
In the past when medical standards could not keep up, women had to go to hell to give birth. Even today, with advanced medical standards, around 200,000 pregnant women die in childbirth in the world every year. Especially after the second child policy was introduced, the death toll did not decrease.
Natural births can cause massive bleeding and ectopia, and even caesarean sections can cause amniotic fluid embolism. My sister-in-law suffered massive bleeding during delivery and had her uterus removed. There were also reports on TV of mothers dying from amniotic fluid embolism during the operation.
Mothers must cooperate with the doctor when giving birth. In addition, they can learn the "hot girl" breathing method in advance to relieve pain by adjusting the breathing rhythm.
Of course, no matter how good the breathing method is, it is not as domineering as epidural anesthesia (painless delivery). Choose epidural anesthesia. Epidural anesthesia may affect uterine contractions and labor progress, or have other problems. Possibility of complications. Although there are some risks associated with epidural anesthesia, if the expectant mother chooses a cesarean section just because of pain, painless delivery will be a better choice.
When it comes to natural childbirth, some people describe it as heart-wrenching and unbearable. Why does it hurt so much for women to give birth? How painful will it be to give birth?
Just talk about it without practicing the fake poses. When women say it’s painful to give birth, men can’t feel it and understand the pain. So there is an activity to let husbands experience the pain of childbirth. Several couples were selected for the activity, and the husband would experience the pain of his wife during childbirth through a childbirth pain simulator.
The labor pain simulator mainly sets the current intensity according to the pain during different stages of pregnancy to simulate labor pains. The pain ranges from 1 to 10, with a total of 10 levels of pain points.
The husband who experienced the pain was unbearable and couldn't help but shout to stop. However, if a woman is giving birth, can she really stop if she just shouts to stop? Obviously not, the pain gradually increased until the very top, and the husbands couldn't help but scream heartbreakingly. Even the strong men said that the pain of childbirth was unbearable, but the women endured it. Only those who have experienced this kind of pain will know it.
The baby needs to pass through the birth canal before birth. Before delivery, the mother's cervix is closed. During delivery, the cervix needs to open a gap of about 10 centimeters before the baby can be born. This process does not happen overnight, but is accompanied by labor pains, one after another. One wave. For women with a short period of labor, it may take several hours from labor pains to the birth of the child, while for women with a long period of labor, it may take more than twenty hours. This feeling will definitely make you unforgettable.
After reading this, treat your wife well. Anyone who can give birth to a child for you is true love.
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Talking about the significance of this natural birth to women, Happy Dad thought of the TV series "Do you know if it should be green, fat, red and thin" that Happy Mom followed yesterday? Happy Dad just read a little bit of the plot when he passed by and talked about Sheng Minglan's Wei Xiaoniang. Because she was a giant baby when she gave birth, coupled with the deliberate neglect of others and the failure to get treatment in time, she could only end up in the end. A happy ending.
It stands to reason that Wei Xiaoniang is already having her second child. She has had her first natural birth experience, and she should be familiar with both the force and the opening of the cervix. If she has a second child, there really won't be any big problems. But when I encounter a giant child, I can only hate him.
Of course, this is just the ancient situation shown in the TV series. The things are fictional, but the content is real. For mothers, giving birth to a child is much more than what it seems on the surface. It is accompanied by various risks. , if you don't respond well, you will really "enter the gate of hell".
contractions
For mothers who are about to give birth naturally, contractions are a necessary process, and this process is also very painful. From the irregular intervals with short duration at the beginning, to the regular intervals with short duration and long duration, and the pain gradually increased. Generally speaking, this kind of contraction will last until the mother's cervix is dilated enough for ten fingers to end.
For the vast majority of first-time mothers, the pain of uterine contractions lasts for 10-30 hours. People who have never experienced it can't imagine the pain. What makes mothers even more desperate is that during the painful contractions, the doctor has to perform a digital examination from time to time to confirm whether the cervix is dilated enough and whether the mother can enter the delivery room.
childbirth
This is a bit scary just thinking about it. The average baby weighs more than 6 pounds. It has to pass through the pelvis (the pelvis needs to be squeezed open), the cervix (the cervix is only a few millimeters originally, and needs to be expanded enough to allow the baby to pass), and the birth canal. (The small birth canal allows the baby to pass smoothly). Every minute and second during this period is torture for mothers.
Some people have said that the distance between babies' heads is less than 10cm when they are born, but for mothers, it is no less than the distance between life and death. From the beginning of the baby's delivery to the complete delivery, mothers bear the pain of 12 ribs breaking at the same time every moment. And you can't faint from the pain. You still need to keep a clear head and cooperate with the doctor to squeeze the baby out.
Press the belly
If mothers can still endure the first two pains, they can breathe a sigh of relief after giving birth and delivering the placenta. That's really when the pattern is broken. At this time, doctors or nurses will appear to help mothers perform the last step of giving birth, pressing the belly.
The medical term is called "pressing the fundus of the uterus". The main purpose is to allow mothers' internal organs to return to their original positions as soon as possible, and to expel the congestion and some lochia from the uterus as soon as possible. Otherwise, if they remain in the body, inflammation will lead to unpredictable consequences. Forgive Happy Dad for not being able to explain this pain in words.
Whether in reality or in film and television works, what we have seen and heard is that it will be very painful for a daughter to give birth, as painful as breaking 10 ribs. This is not alarmist. Only those who have experienced it will know the pain. It tastes bad. In ancient times, how many people died one and two due to dystocia. It was not until the advent of caesarean section that there were more choices, which completely improved the survival rate and reduced women's pain.
In short, giving birth to a child is really like walking through the gate of hell. Only after passing through this gate can you see the bright sun of tomorrow.
Childbirth is a very painful thing in many people's minds. Coupled with the exaggeration in current TV series, many people know how difficult it is to have a child. Especially now that technology is developing faster and faster, things like pain receptors have emerged, which can make many men and young people feel how difficult it is to have a child.
We generally know that giving birth is a painful thing, but why do some women who have already given birth think that giving birth is just that, and it doesn’t hurt much? In fact, in addition to everyone’s inherent sensitivity to pain being different, it is also affected by these factors:
1. Maternal age. Everyone knows that human skin will gradually change with age and may become sagging. The matter of giving birth requires a higher elasticity of a woman's birth canal. If it is more elastic, it will naturally be easier to deliver the baby.
2. Pelvic size. There is a saying in rural areas that people with big butts are more likely to have children. There is some truth to this. That is the size of a woman's pelvis, which will also affect childbirth. It is relatively easier for women with larger pelvises to give birth. We can understand that the runway becomes wider and the sports car runs more conveniently, right?
3. The mother’s own physical strength. Some women are relatively weak, and giving birth is a strenuous job. It's not like in TV dramas where the baby is born just by yelling. When you are actually giving birth, you need to conserve your energy and not shout loudly, because your labor may last for more than ten hours.
4. Fetal position and size. If the weight of the fetus is larger, it will naturally be affected by greater resistance during birth, and the delivery process will be longer and the pain will be stronger.
So, if you want to have a baby quickly and suffer less. You must remember not to over-supplement nutrients, and not to keep your baby motionless during pregnancy, as this will make childbirth more painful. Fortunately, painless delivery has now been promoted across the country, and giving birth may become easier in the future.
In ancient times, women relied on cisterns to give birth. There were no caesarean sections at that time, and many women died in childbirth due to various factors. Therefore, giving birth to a child at that time was either life or death, which was like going to the gate of hell. Although we now have caesarean section technology, which has saved many mothers who were in danger during childbirth, giving birth still has certain risks, such as postpartum complications, massive bleeding, amniotic fluid embolism, etc., if the rescue is not timely, It will also kill the mother, and it is equivalent to going to hell.
Why does it hurt so much for women to give birth?
Whether it is a natural birth or a caesarean section, a woman's body has to endure all kinds of pain.
Mothers who give birth naturally experience painful menstrual cramps at the beginning, then the cervix is fully opened as if the ribs are broken, then the severe pain of the fetal head pressing on the birth canal, and finally the pain of possible side cutting or tearing when the fetus is delivered. , the whole process takes 8-14 hours. One of my colleagues gave birth to a baby for 3 days and 3 nights, and finally gave birth to a big fat baby naturally, but the pain also left a deep memory in her memory.
A mother who gives birth to a caesarean section starts with anesthesia, arching her body and feeling the pain of the long needle piercing her spine, then taking out the fetus, and then after giving birth, she is unable to move because of the pain of the wound after anesthesia. The pain you feel when a nurse helps you press your stomach to expel lochia cannot be expressed in words. These are also pains that ordinary people cannot experience.
However, such pain is still worth it compared with the safe birth of the baby. Everything is for the smooth delivery of the baby. As a man, you must be good to your wife, because everyone who is willing to give birth to your baby, They are all fighting for their lives!
Will amniotic fluid embolism occur during vaginal delivery?
Cesarean section is very likely to cause amniotic fluid embolism if you choose natural delivery, so it can be avoided early. Some people are very, very prone to it, so the process of choosing natural delivery or caesarean section You must be very careful, because amniotic fluid embolism is very obvious, and the probability of maternal death is very high if it occurs. And this situation is indeed difficult to prevent. Its incidence rate is not very high, but once it occurs, it is very dangerous to the mother and baby. During the delivery process of expectant mothers, due to the rupture of capillaries, the amniotic fluid passes through the ruptured tubes. Entering into the cycle of pregnant mothers, a very obvious manifestation of skin allergies is caused. The thrombosis caused by the amniotic fluid enters the lungs, causing difficulty in breathing, and may cause the pregnant woman to die from lack of oxygen in an instant.
Because the baby is still in the womb at this time, if the mother-to-be does not have enough oxygen, the baby will die quickly in the womb. Amniotic fluid embolism not only occurs in older mothers, but also in multiple births, twins, uterus, high blood pressure, high blood sugar, cesarean section, etc., and the incidence rate of pregnancy with male fetuses is significantly higher. Moreover, amniotic fluid embolism is very likely to occur whether you choose natural delivery or cesarean section, but the incidence rate of cesarean section is much higher than that of natural birth, about five times higher.
Not long ago, Liu Qiangru, the younger sister of JD.com founder Liu Qiangdong, tragically died of amniotic fluid embolism during childbirth. She was only 42 years old. This was her third child and an older mother, but she suddenly suffered an amniotic fluid embolism during the operation. Amniotic fluid embolism cannot be treated in time. In other words, no matter who I am or how rich I am, it doesn't matter. Amniotic fluid embolism (AFE) often occurs during delivery, which means that amniotic fluid suddenly enters the body's blood circulation during delivery, causing acute pulmonary embolism, anaphylactic shock, diffuse intracapillary coagulation (DIC), uremia, etc. A series of pathological changes in the serious complications of pregnancy and childbirth. This disease is the leading cause of maternal mortality.
The tangible substances contained in the amniotic fluid include fetal milk hair, keratinized epithelial cells, fetal scale, and meconium. It is currently believed that AFE is caused by the above tangible substances in the amniotic fluid contaminated by meconium entering the mother's blood circulation. Although there are certain high-risk factors for amniotic fluid embolism, such as advanced age, excessive amniotic fluid, emergency labor, improper use of oxytocin, etc. However, because the prevalence of amniotic fluid embolism is very low, it is basically difficult to prevent. Even patients with high-risk factors rarely develop amniotic fluid embolism. Therefore, the occurrence of amniotic fluid embolism is almost impossible to control. .
Which celebrity died of amniotic fluid embolism?
Liu Qiangdong's sister Liu Qiangru died of suspected amniotic fluid embolism during childbirth at the age of 42.
It is a pity that he passed away just like that when he was in his forties and still had a lot of years to live.
The above is all about Liu Qiangru’s amniotic fluid, whether amniotic fluid embolism will occur during normal delivery and amniotic fluid embolism during cesarean section, as well as Liu Qiangru’s related content. I hope it can help you.